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Ethiopian women facing horrific conditions in Arab countries

By Tania Tabar, The Daily Star

BEIRUT – At the Ethiopian Consulate in Beirut, Lebanon, a poster declares “Ethiopia: 13 weeks of sunshine” as two officials sit at their desks. The three chairs in the waiting room are usually occupied these days: In just one recent week, the mission heard of one Ethiopian domestic worker who died a suspicious death and another who is in hospital with both legs broken, possibly paralyzed, and can only communicate by blinking her eyes.

The previous week, a woman walked in shaking. When the social officer asked her what was wrong, she replied that her “Madame” – her employer – threatened her with a knife.

It has long been the case that women from impoverished countries like Ethiopia come to Lebanon to work, that many encounter abuse and even violence, and that most find they have nowhere to turn.

Elinore Molla and Victoria Andarge, two Ethiopian women who are involved with the Full Gospel Church in Beirut, have turned an apartment they are renting into a makeshift sanctuary for women who flee their employers after facing some sort of abuse.

“The consulate doesn’t have a resting room. Women sleep under the cars [outside the consulate], so many guys come and harass them. They are only 20 years old with a future and destiny. I take the decision in my life to suffer for them,” said Molla, 27, who is originally from Ethiopia’s capital, Addis Ababa.

Molla first found out about the women sleeping underneath the cars about a year ago.

“When I was walking I saw the girls,” she recalls. “I found four girls … I was shocked. They said, ‘help us.'”

She took them into her home, which today houses about two dozen women at any given time. “I’m Christian, I’m a believer,” she told The Daily Star. “Everyday I see my people and my nation, with no one to take responsibility. The idea comes from God – helping protect someone who was abused. I ask the girl when I take her to my home: ‘What’s the problem with your sponsor?’ And she says, ‘so many things.'”

The head of the social affairs office at the Ethiopian Consulate, who preferred not to be identified by name, confirmed that women continue to sleep under cars near the mission until this day.

There are several problems with the situation of domestic migrant workers in Lebanon, she explained: “It is not only Ethiopian workers facing problems, but because women from other countries stopped signing contracts, the number of Ethiopians increased.”

There is currently no reliable data, but the consulate estimates the number of Ethiopian workers in Lebanon to be between 40,000 and 50,000, a substantial increase since the number of women coming from Sri Lanka and the Philippines dropped off following the 2006 war with Israel – and attendant stories of abuse and neglect. The Ethiopian government officially barred its own women from coming to Lebanon earlier this year, but many are now traveling here through third countries.

The head of the consular section, who also did not want to be named, said that problems frequently begin from the day of arrival. Many sponsors do not adhere to the terms of the contracts, he explained, such as duration, remuneration, and hours of work expected.

What is even more problematic, he added, is when agencies do not take responsibility when a woman files a complaint, paving the way for a volatile relationship between the workers and their employers.

“We are facing a lot of problems,” he said. “One problem is by the housemaids, second by the sponsors. Since we are foreigners to this country we have a different culture, so from the beginning it is difficult for her to get accustomed.

“But I want to turn to the sponsors’ problem,” he added. “There are a lot of problems from sponsors, they don’t pay salaries on time, they treat them aggressively, they don’t get enough food, and they don’t provide shelter.”

According to the consulate, some 70 percent of employers who employ Ethiopians don’t pay their employees on a monthly basis.

“Sometimes they close the balcony and make them sleep on the floor,” added the head of the social affairs office, “and they beat her to make her understand. That’s why she becomes aggressive toward agencies, the consulate and herself.”

Most troubling of all, the mission says it has been sending a record number of corpses back to Ethiopia.

The consulate estimates that 150 women have died in a little more than a year, and there is no accountability.

In one recent case, Mekdes Tesfaye Tefera’s corpse was found with a noose around her neck. But the consulate has doubts that this was a self-inflicted death and has filed a police report.

“They always say, ‘she killed herself,'” the social affairs officer said.

In the case of Zebiba Kedr, who is currently hospitalized, the consulate is working on having charges laid against the woman for whom she was working. The employers have stated that Kedr fell from the 12th floor of their building, but the head of the consular section said that when he went to see her in the hospital and asked her “Madame” had pushed her, she indicated ‘yes’ by blinking her eyes.

Stories like these make the unofficial shelter run by Molla and Andarge even more essential. Andarge said the agencies were the main problem, accusing them of “playing a game” with people’s lives. The government needs to get involved, she added, and make sure the agencies take responsibility for the women and how they are treated.

The consulate representatives said they had an agreement with all the agencies that said the latter were to be responsible for the women they bring to Lebanon, and that this is why mission does not have a shelter.

The nongovernmental organization Caritas offers a safehouse for workers who are flee their employers’ homes, but Molla said that these spaces are usually reserved for those who are very sick or have psychological problems.

Molla is one of the lucky ones. She came to Lebanon when she was 17 years old and says she has always been well treated by her employer.

“She is like my mom, she is Lebanese, and she supports me. I love her,” Molla told The Daily Star.

But since she regards her own experience as the exception rather than the rule, she discourages other Ethiopian women from traveling to Lebanon for work – a process which she described as getting easier by the day.

“The Lebanese name is collapsing everywhere,” she said, explaining that in Addis Ababa, Lebanon’s reputation is causing fewer and fewer would-be migrant workers to sign up.

To compensate, she added, the recruiters have started concentrating on women from remote villages.

Molla said she tells women in Ethiopia “what is going on” in Lebanon, “and that it’s better to stay in your country, because you still have hopes there. Here there are no hopes.”

Nonetheless, a young woman now staying at the makeshift safehouse said she would like to stay here and support her family back home – if her employers here were to treat her well.

Andarge believes there is hope to change the situation and has already noticed changes in public opinion and awareness. New York-based Human Rights Watch recently conducted a hard-hitting campaign on the plight of migrant domestic workers in Lebanon, and last month the American University of Beirut hosted a conference and roundtable discussion on the issue. Some of the students were appalled at what they heard, she said, and their reaction was a pleasant “surprise.”

“It will be changed,” Andarge said with tears in her eyes. “We just need strong people.”

7 thoughts on “Ethiopian women facing horrific conditions in Arab countries

  1. We are left with no choice except to stand up and fight for our people’s well being. These days, the colossal tragedies our people are facing on a daily basis are hard to forget. By taking actions with determination and clarity, we shall need to bring fundamental changes to improve the life conditions of our people in our own country. We can’t go on collecting handouts to solve our wide problems every time and every where. Therefore, for a systematic problem, we shall need to devise a systematic solution.

  2. It’s so sad that the hapless ruthless one-man one-party rule of Meles and EPRDF cannot do anything about this massive, gross, and systematic violations of the human rights of over 50,000 Ethiopian migrant workers in Lebanon. Although these women have the freedom of movement and work, the government has to step in to stop these helpless women from moving to Lebanon and must also outlaw all such employment/recruitment agencies from operating in Ethiopia. This in no instance is an abrogation or abridgment of rights. Rather, it is called legal paternalism.

    Last week, I was shocked and disappointed to hear an inflammatory, defamatory statement made by a certain Lebanese student studying in Austria with me. She said in class that “Ethiopian prostitutes are the cheapest in Lebanon while Ukrainian are the most expensive”. For me, this was like adding an insult to the injury that Ethiopian women suffered. For a woman of good character and integrity, this is never an appropriate thing to utter in public, given that prostitution is not an option for any woman of dignity, no matter what their price is. I was deeply hurt-my pride was wounded, both as an individual human being and as an Ethiopia. I gave notice to this woman to either justify or retract her statement. However, she is still acting as if she did not hear anything from me or as if it/we did not matter. This Arab woman, at least, should have shown respect to her colleagues, as long as there are two Ethiopians studying with here, including myself. I am totally destabilized by frustration, indignation, and wounded pride.

    Drear compatriots, I am calling upon you in earnest to do something about the problem of Ethiopian women in Lebanon.I am also calling upon the government to stop further migration and extend adequate protection to those who have already found their way to Leabon.

    God bless Ethiopia

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  3. Yes it is sickening to the stomach and painful to the heart of millions of Ethiopians when the lives of Ethiopians wasted as if there is no meaning and value in being Ethiopians.

    when the door of opportunity of living in dignity is shut down on all those who finally are driven out of their beloved country by the current unkind regime, their won’t be a better life in Lebanon but death.

    Well, according to the tell of history and facts and doccuments, Ethiopia and Ethiopians have nurtured the destitues and the poor who immegerated from Arab countries to Ethiopia for many years and the land and the people of Ethiopia have given them the opportunity to become healthy and wealthy. Why then arabs are enjoying wasting the lives of dear Ethiopians?

    This problematic shame can be abolished if and only if Ethiopians get rid of the current regime forever.

  4. i read at the following site in May 2008 Ethiopia has officially bans its citizens from seeking work in Lebanon

    I guess the problem now is despite the ban some women travel via third countries to Lebanon to work which is a very risky and dangerous option to poverty. having no jobs and living in poverity might lead some to desperation to decide to ignore the warning and still keep travelling those dangerous countries but living in poverty is a wise alternative to abuse and losing precious life in middleeastern countries.

    I personally stopped my auntie from going to Saudi Arabia and when I warn her how badly the situation for workers there, she said she had no alternative as she had no job and I had to offer monthly allowance so that she remained in Addis and look for a job in Addis Ababa. she then agreed to cancel the agreement she had with an agency in addis and she has remained in Addis. Now its been 4 month and she is happy . I am more happy to know that she now lives in her own country and soon when I find some more money I am planning for her to start some kind of business god willing. fellow Ethio Brothers and Sisters I do believe that those of us who live in diaspora try to help our sisters in Ethio in any way we can and prevent them from going to Arab countries. that can make a difference. Long Live our beoved Ethiopia and her children.

  5. Iam a lebanese who is happly married to an ethiopian woman.U dont xpect50000iopian women living in one small country like lebanon and have things runing smoothly all of them . come on be realistic , abuse is happening everywhere in the world even in so called civilized countries , when we talk about abuse we should talk about isolated incidents not generelizing .I know many ethioian domestic helpers in lebanon , they are happy and content and alot of them renew their contracts. yes there are some sick minded and abusive minority in lebanon like anywhere else in the world but the vast majority of lebanese are decent ,loving and ompasionate .To travel to another country not knowing the culture or the language is very frustrating to both employers and employees and and some times these employees feel home sick and miss the people they left behind ,and sometimes they find out there husbands back home have left them for another woman , all these factors and others like if they fall in the hands of some abusive employer put alot of presure on some ethiopian women working abroad so they take extreme measures like running away from their employer who feels he paid alot of money to bring them to lebanon .the problem lies with the parents of very young ethiopian ladies who are sometimes not older than 16 years af age who come to lebanon or any other country to work as maids with no life experience or embassy or laws to protect them .these young girls often cheat on their birth date and make themselves older so they can get a passport to travel and work abroad . the blame lies on the parents of these young women who push their daughters into the unknown and on the governments who fail to emprove their peoples lives in their own countries .

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